ok, so here is the finished product, y'all didn't miss much in between. i've just spent the last week and a half waiting on parts to come in, returning wrong parts, tedious stuff.

i couldn't wait to take a picture then go and ride it, so it is a little dirty.
in total, it cost me just under $320. i am very happy with the build, if anyone has any questions or if i've forgotten something, please let me know!
added: the rear wheel looks different from above, that's because it is completely different. the hub on the old wheel is different than the hub needed for the ss conversion kit. i was going to swap in a new hub, but when it came in, it was the wrong size so i've gotta send it back, also, the freewheel would not come off so that wheel's gone. i ordere a new one with the right hub for ~$50