I tend to not be too hard on tires so I get a little more than that but you are correct that they have a reputation of not lasting as long as some do. But the ride quality is the trade-off. I've since switched to tubeless like you. If money isn't that big an issue I say get the Vittoria's, but if money is tight then go with the Conti 4000S, don't know if they have a 25mm version or not, but the 23mm version is a nice tire and since that is what the OP said he wants that may be the way to go. Unless I can talk him into a 25mm.
New to this thread, and while I looked at the article you linked to, I confess to not completely understanding it. Can you (or someone else) explain why the slightly wider tire is a better riding tire?
I can see advantages with a wider tire assisting in cornering and stability, but I have always assumed that rolling resistance had to do with friction, and it would seem that a thinner tire would make less contact with the ground and have less friction.
My purpose for road riding would be more for endurance purposes and speed wouldn't be my prime objective, so I might consider wider for comfort purposes, but in layman's terms I'm not sure I understand the argument about rolling resistance.